Things on my Want List (and justification of why I don't need them):
- KitchenAid Stand Mixer (no room on the kitchen counter, my hand mixer does just fine, I prefer to mix many things by hand, and my bread machine tackles the toughest mixing job I can think of)
- Hammocks for camping trips (we have camp chairs that work just fine, we could bike/hike instead of hanging from trees all day, I can be lazy on my own couch)
- A 50mm lens for my camera (um, can't think of any reason except the price - so I guess you could say it's the thing I really do want!)
Some new hair clips/barrettes (but the ones I have still work, so what if they are a little scratched, who is paying that much attention to my hair clips?)Well, scratch that. Another side effect of working the envelope system - there's actually money to accommodate some of the 'wants' even when it's not a holiday or birthday. So I bought them.
- iTunes gift card - I love getting new apps for my phone, and maybe a little music, too. (But I would really be just fine with what I already have. I usually get education apps for the kids anyway.)
- Gift cards for Chick-Fil-A, Jimmy John's, or a couple of our local coffee shops. (This is totally a luxury - I love to eat out! In fact, a part of my blow money goes towards an almost-every-week lunch with a friend.)
So what's on my real wish list? Well, I'm an Acts of Service person, so I value time over stuff. For example, I love it when the trash gets emptied - and gets a new liner - without having to ask someone to do it. Laundry folded and put away? Woo-ee! My least-favorite task, emptying the dishwasher, done for me? Oh, my, that is a treat like no other! (For real!)
For many people, "time" doesn't really count as a gift. I know this. But imagine sound of me laughing heartily, if you can - because I'm surprised by the realization that we are, truly, weird. But that's ok, because we are happier than ever.
And Dave, if you are reading this, you didn't really ruin Christmas for me. It's better. I'm much more thoughtful about the gifts we give, and we are also doing more giving to those that need it (Operation Christmas Child, Salvation Army Stockings, and we even look for other ways that we can bless those around us). So thank you - for making our family happy, our marriage stronger, and helping me step away from the madness that can surround the holidays. I'm looking forward to a calm and peaceful holiday.
ETA: I thought of a few more things... (yes, I'm finding it a little funny...)
REI Kingdom 6 Garage (it's on clearance!)
And to use it to its full potential, you need a set of adjustable tent/trekking poles... (I have no idea how to choose one set of these over another, but these seem about mid-priced with a great review, and on clearance!)
Camp towels! And maybe some smaller cloths to use as washcloths? Probably need something that dries quickly for our camping vacation next year.
The camping version of this game looks like fun!
I love Words With Friends on the iPhone, so a non-electric travel version of Scrabble would be fun!
And, yes - these are all things that our family would share. And some folks would say towels are "too practical" - but if it's Christmas, don't you get to choose what you want? I know that doesn't always mean you get it, though, as Miss M has asked for a zebra.